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      <image:caption>Christy Reichert, MSW, LICSW/LCSW, is a feminist, disability-justice oriented therapist specializing in helping professional women who live with chronic illness and/or chronic pain in Oregon and Washington state. [Image description: a photo of Christy, a small-fat white woman with short brown hair. She is lying on a couch, a glass holding two spoons and the book Rest Is Resistance by Tricia Hersey within reach.]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Christy Reichert, MSW, LICSW/LCSW, is a feminist, disability-justice oriented clinical supervisor in Washington state. [Image description: a photo of Christy, a small-fat white woman with short brown hair. She is wearing a floral-pattern shirt and black pants. She is sitting at a desk in front of a computer and surrounded by books, including Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto and Laziness Does Not Exist. She is holding and looking at a book called Supervision Essentials for the Feminist Psychotherapy Model of Supervision.]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Christy Reichert, MSW, LICSW/LCSW, is a feminist, disability-justice oriented therapist specializing in helping professional women who live with chronic illness and/or chronic pain in Oregon and Washington state. [Image description: a photo of Christy, a small-fat white woman with short brown hair. She is laughing at something the photographer said. She is wearing a floral-pattern shirt and black pants. She is sitting at a desk in front of a computer and surrounded by books, including Sitting Pretty: The View From My Ordinary Resilient Disabled Body; Doing Harm: The Truth About Bad Medicine and Lazy Science Leave Women Dismissed, Misdiagnosed, and Sick; The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love; Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto; and Laziness Does Not Exist.]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Christy Reichert, MSW, LICSW/LCSW, is a feminist, disability-justice oriented therapist specializing in helping professional women who live with chronic illness and/or chronic pain in Oregon and Washington state. [Image description: a photo of Christy, a small-fat white woman with short brown hair. She is wearing a floral-pattern shirt and black pants. She is holding a copy of the DSM-5, looking at it in horror and disgust and preparing to throw it in the trash.]</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Read Me</image:title>
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